I've been noticing lately that ppl in general act like personal space bubbles & that there is a line to cross are out dated things, I disagree.
Seems you can't even go to the story, walk out to the mailbox , go for a walk or jump online without someone MOSTLY guys getting in your Space Bubble.
I don't know WHO OR what made you decide there was no longer a line to cross but I am here to wave the pot of coffee under your nose, it's STILL THERE!
What do you think, Is No Personal Space Bubble the New Rule?
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I like my space I hate it when people get to close to me when they are talking or a man not my husband putting his hamd on my back or shoulder I don't mind if some on takes my hand the shake or what ever but that is close enough unless they are real friends such as my friend Van or Ron I don't mind a hug
How is the puppy dog doing?
I don't know but I hate that. People who stand or sit too close make me jumpy and uncomfortable.
@SisterMae - she's doing better eating solids she is staying at about 90% either that she is a lil like Eeyore she has the saddest lil eyes most of the time, it;s like she skipped being a puppy on the inside.
@BoulderChristina - todays rant was brought to you by the letter S for a creeper left me a Sonnet in my xanga msgs!!!
Ah, shucks. I wanna creeper too!
I like to keep my personal space personal.
@BoulderChristina - I rec'd your comment maybe you'll get your wish.... ♪♫ love is in the air♪♫
I've had a few cases where people, usually women, have crossed creeper lines. I usually block them or take other measures that are appropriate to the situation. Sometimes a gentle reminder is all they need to understand that what they are doing is not okay, and other times you have to be more forceful.
Sorry, but if you invade my personal space I turn into the redhead from HELL!! This has been mentioned in several of my blogs and I'm sure I've scared the living daylights out of more than one person at Wally World because of this very thing... If it's someone I know well, then it's no problem. Otherwise, best look out.
Glad to hear that Lady B is doing better. I know you've been concerned about her. I hope she is back to her bouncy puppy self very soon. ((((HUGS))))
@Kris0logy - You're a true friend!
@BoulderChristina -
@Kris0logy - I am glad she is doing better with love she will learn to play and be a puppy
@MzSilver - hahahah I've been told I have this look that make men run away in fear..Can't really give that look online lol So I shall rant about it in a concealed post like manner.
@QuantumStorm - going to go do some "friend" editing as we speak.
@Kris0logy - I think I know that look. The one that will make them tuck their tail and head for the hills? Yes indeed. LOL... You really got a Sonnet? Lord have mercy!! Now I understand even better.
@MzSilver - LOL WHAT it really means is he used my picture to go to paradise island (pg) LMBO! Gross myself out just now...bleh bleh bleh
@Kris0logy - OH Euuuu!!! But I'm rolling over here at your 'grossed yourself out'... SO sorry...
@MzSilver - da nada I was lol at the same time weird mix of emotions... I need a coffee.
@Kris0logy - Under this situation, make mine a margarita and a double at that!!!
... I think you are handling it well considering the situation.
@MzSilver - LOL I guess you get used to weird, you aren't the ONLY one with stories,
I left my weirder ones out of my 21 post.
@Kris0logy - What would life be without the wierd, wild or wacky parts of it? It's what makes it worth living. Or... at least some of them do... *smile...
i work with and live with children, i have no personal space. in a bubble or otherwise.
@promisesunshine - no you don't LOL!
@BoulderChristina - I would offer but I don't know how to write a sonnet. Maybe I could just come and stand next to you.
I don't have to worry abut it--no one wants my space.
As to your question--there should always be 'your' space that no one crosses without your permission.